My mother bugs me for money on a daily basis?

Hi. You're not going to be a bad daughter if you refuse to give her any money. Your mom is an adult and she should know by now that she needs a JOB instead of always mooching of of you. It's not your fault that she's lousy with money. I'd say if she blows off all of her money from her unemeployment check then she's SOL. She can beg and plead all she wants but I'd suggest that you don't give her any more money until you see some of that money she owes you. I'm sure she's going to try and lay a guilt trip on you, and say things that you know aren't true, but by all means she needs to get her head out her , leave you and your family alone, and find a job. There are no free rides in this world, and unemployment won't last forever. You have two babies that you should invest into their future, and if your mom at least cared about your children she would try and invest in their future too. I hope this helps.